Kate Matsudaira is one of the very few technical people who shares very beneficial knowledge and experiences for leadership, leveling up and management.
Her talk at Velocity about Leveling Up for engineers, is a very useful guide line for all tech people to set a goal and road-map for themselves to improve and be better at their work.
Here is the video of the conference and below you can find my notes.
[The following notes are a summary of what is mentioned in the video and they are not mine]
Work is not just about contributions and features. It’s not about what you do, it’s how you do it.
Figure out what you want to be doing!
Where you’re at… what are your skills. Depth is not enough. You have to have breadth. Also Social skills and soft-skills.
- Identify success
- Be specific about it – The path
- Create if-then-else for all the obstacles.( if I couldn’t do it this weekend I will do it Sunday)
- Schedule the time with yourself. Every month. to look where you are at and what you are doing.
# Hard work
# Become indispensible to the team. Become the person who is most important to the organization. If it’s not you, so how could you become the one.
It’s not enough to do what you are told to do. You have to look to other places to contribute. Fill the gaps. Do the right things. It’s also important to do the right things.
# It’s your job to manage your manager. Asking the right questions and giving them the right questions that they need to be successful.
# Does your manager knows what you are doing?
It’s about trust. How much you manager trusts you? You have to build trust.
– Do the hard work first.
– Use your time effectively.
– Work hardest in the office
be precise with the questions: What was the one thing I could have done to make the project better.
Be open to feedback :
- Don’t be defensive
- Fight the urge to jump in and answer
- Ask for clarification – What would you have done differently?
- Listen for emotion
- Be thankful
- Change and adopt
- Who is the person you admire the most at your job?
- What do they do and what do they do differently?
When people come to you, be open. Take the time to understand what they are saying.
Bring solutions to the table.
Empathy and attitude. You have the most control about how you feel about things.
Reverse – Take the time to put yourself in others shoes.
Long term – How you feel about the situation in a year from now. If you won’t care, there no reason to get upset
Chance for growth –
- The tone and the words you use makes a difference.
- Improve written messages.
- Know your audience. VP of engineering, business person, or team-mates
- Start the message with what’s important.
- Be concise
- “Let me know if you would like more info”.
- Make it easy to understand for everyone.
- Most successful people are the ones who are able to communicate with everyone and talk at a level that’s accessible for everyone.
Making people feel important:
- Be present (at conferences). If you’re in a meeting, engage and be in the meeting.
- Repeat what you heard. You make people feel heard and important.
- Ask questions.
- Don’t interrupt
If you are not doing a good job, people don’t want to work with you and they won’t respect you.
Influence : No one cares about how much you know, until the know how much you care.
Improve relationships :
1 – Make list of the most important people in your team
2 – Make a list of people who you have best relationships with
How can you improve your relationships ?
You are the average of your 5 closest friends. and if your 5 closest friends at work are not the most important people. Improve your relationships.
Do you know 3 things you could do, to make your life and career better?
You can’t become the person who you want to be by staying who you are.